Monday, September 5, 2016

Need to Destroy


waiting....till I can feel again.....Need, Desire...Lust.
wake me up

The Look-Need To Destroy
Hair- Clawtooth: Giselle - Brunette- Collab88
Earrings- Zaara : Sarika feather earrings
Panties- TETRA - Stretch-silk Thong (Nude)
Nipple Rings- S&P OF piercing 

Band of the moment: THC
Album: Adagio

Saturday, September 3, 2016



It's time to make good on my promise and talk a little about mesh heads. The mesh head adaptation isn't one that has been easy for me. I'm kinda am going back on my word by even stumbling into mesh head territory, but I realized that if I didn't try...I would be left behind. I always feared that getting a mesh head would mean that I would lose my individually and the little things that made me unique in SL would fall to the side. I did try a few things to give myself some unique aspects..I'll mention them below.

It seems more and more designers have geared their new release skins to work exclusively for mesh heads. This made shopping events I loved to visit a little frustrating because I couldn't purchase the newest skin. I did however do the following for months before getting my mesh head. I collected every freebie or low cost applier that I could get my hand on. Even though I had no intention at the time to actually get a mesh head I wanted to be prepared in the event I did.

I had several talks with my SL friends about mesh heads so I had a lot of opinions and thoughts to take into consideration when choosing one. Above all, I took my time, I test drove several heads and skin appliers before making the final purchase. Mesh heads are not cheap, I think mine cost about 6k in Lindens. Quite a hefty price to pay. So if you are thinking about making the transition to a mesh head I strongly encourage you to take your time in order to avoid buyer's remorse. (which might happen)

Which head and skin combo did I pick? Well,  let me tell you. I stuck with my old faithful and trusted skin designer, Glam Affair. Glam Affair imho, makes the best skins in SL. Everything is pretty much flawlessly desinged. Glam Affair skins also are 100 percent compatible with my mesh body from Maitreya. For me, Catwa seemed like the only choice when it came to picking a base mesh head, here's why. Catwa seemed to be the most popular, meaning LOTS of skin designers and appliers had been made for this skin. Also, there are Animation Huds that are included in your purchase which allow some emotion to be shown. I've been having fun playing with them so far.

So what are some things that I did to make my SL face slightly more unique?  I used appliers. Two key things that I feel are a trademark on my SL face are freckles and eyeliner. I wanted to keep these things when making the transition to mesh, but was worried I was going to lose them since Glam Affair didn't have an applier for these two options. What I did was ask around. My friend Daallee was able to steer me into the right direction and provided me with a link to Izzie's appliers and I found both freckles and eyeliner. These appliers can be totally removed and added via a HUD and I feel help make me a little more unique. You can also choose different SL mesh eyes and lashes to enhance your SL Face.

The bottom line when it comes to purchasing a mesh head is DON'T rush into it. Take your time and try many different skins, mesh heads and appliers. There is a way to get your unique style through. You just have to work a little to uncover it.

The Look- Secrets
Hair-Oleander ~ Madison. Essential Tones- (Collab 88, August Round)
Head- CATWA HEAD Alice
Skin-Glam Affair - Gio Applier- (Uber September Round) 
Dress- David Heather-Alejandra Dress- Rose

Musical Inspirational: Secret, Mary Lambert


Sunday, August 28, 2016


I just got a new mesh head and while I'm really enjoying it; I'm not going to give the details of the head or my review until another posts. I'm still working through if I like having a mesh head or not. It feels incomplete, and not totally myself, I suppose it will take a period of adjusting. Frustration has recently gotten the best of me, so my apologies this will be a little soapbox rant. I promise it will be a more structured post next time. 

As a reminder, Please....please don't forget the wonderful diversity we have in our Second Life community. SL is global not just regional...This last week I have seen things that haven't quite sat well with me. 

Every avatar has a real person attached to them. Show some compassion and leave the politics OUT of SL. Don't manipulate, take advantage or pull on people's heart strings. Be Genuine in your actions. Don't stomp on people's fun, views or plans. Think before speaking...How would I react if I heard someone telling someone I loved or cared about the words I'm about to speak? if you would be upset perhaps you should not say anything. Above All....Just be nice.

Musical Inspiration: Cold Play: Politik  

"look at earth from outer space
Everyone must find a place
Give me time and give me space
Give me real, don't give me fake
Give me strength, reserve control
Give me heart and give me soul
Give me time, give us a kiss
Tell me your own politik"

Sunday, July 24, 2016

Let em eat Cake! by the ocean

Let em eat Cake! by the ocean It's my birthday...and I'm looking a little cake preferably by the ocean...... 
34 today

Musical Inspiration: Cake by The Ocean

The Look-Let em eat Cake! by the Ocean
Hair- Magika - Shimmer
Skin-Glam Affair - Luna Skin - Jamaica 06
Tattoo-White~Widow-Shallows - White - Top - Maitreya Mesh Body
Crown-The Queen's Crown - Pearls & Coal
CAKE- Ice Cream Cake CHEZ MOI

Friday, April 15, 2016

That's how I know

That's how I know

Collab88 totally managed to capture my heart again....and pretty soon you might see me SL homeless because I managed to spend all my lindens at this round, but at least I'll have a killer pair of shoes to sport. Not only did I pick up shoes but I also purchased a body suit from one of my SL staple stores Nylon Outfitters.

So, let's get into the details..this time lets start at the bottom and work our way up. CandyDoll released the Esme Boots and they are totally stunning. A hybrid between thigh high fishnets and heels Esme will draw attention to your gorgeous gams. I chose to pair these boots with a high waisted skirt from Pixicat.

Another great find from Collab 88 is Nylon Outfitters Lace Bodysuit. I love the open back and intricate weaving across the shoulders and front. This round of Collab88 is one that is worth visiting. So many cute items to purchase.

The Look- That's how I know
Bodysuit-(NO) Lace BodySuit -Black
Skirt- -Pixicat- Flirty.Skirt (Red)
Shoes-CandyDoll- Esme Boots Black
Pose-oOo boo! ty_two
Musical Inspiration: D'Nell, That's how I know

Tuesday, April 5, 2016

When I'm Blue....

When I'm Blue
I think of you...

Well It looks like I'm back to blogging for now. I can't stay away from this part of Second Life because I find it's such a creative outlet for me. So let's look at what I'm wearing today, sigh...I know it isn't much,but that's the fun of blogging...showing off my unmentionables.

Today I'm wearing Zaara's Chanchal Lingerie in Mocha. Zaara's lingerie comes complete with appliers which lay directly against the skin. Zaara has been a favorite designer of mine for many years so you can imagine how much I love lounging around in this set. The lingerie set comes complete with stockings, garter belt, panties and lace bra.

Next I want to highlight Erratic's Allure Satin robe in midnight. This robe is totally cute and dar I say sexy. It comes complete with a hud that will allow you to have it open or closed. I prefer the open flasher option as I can give you all glimps of my lingerie.

The Look-When I'm Blue
Hair- Magika - Fool for Love
Skin--Glam Affair - Luna Skin - Jamaica
Lingerie- Zaara : Chanchal Lingerie *mocha*- Maitreya appliers
Robe-erratic / allure - satin robe / midnight (maitreya)

Musical Inspiration: I was a fool for Love- Tegan and Sara

Sunday, January 31, 2016


"Losing him was blue like I'd never known.......Missing him was dark grey all alone.....Forgetting him was like trying to know somebody you never met.....But loving him was red......Loving him was red" Red-Taylor Swift

With Valentine's day approaching next month, I decided to get the jump and start blogging all the pretty hues of red, white and pink....cause you know that's the traditional colors that we use to express Amore or Love. Today's look is an homage to cupid, if you notice I'm wearing wings.

During a recent trip to Uber I was twitterpated, by Paper Arrow's, breezy dress. I fell so hard for this dress that actually ended up buying it in several different colors, because it's so could I not. Some of the great features about Paper's Arrow's dress is that  you can customize the top portion which means a total of 20 different color options. Personally tend to stick to a monochromatic look from head to toe, but with Paper Arrow's, breezy dress there are.....options for styling. One of the things I enjoy the most about this dress is the smooth texture that give the illusion of silk or softness. Breezy truly does live up to it's name because it feels as if it would fly off on it's own. Paper Arrow is a new store to me, but will be one that I am visiting more often.

Now, I want to point attention to the feet. Candy Doll, created a set of shoes that were available for the Epiphany Gacha Event. Now, I had to say...I had shoe envy, which is why I bought these shoes. It seemed like all my friends had the fashion jump and were sporting them weeks before I jumped on board. CandyDoll's shoes come complete with a multi-color changing hud. 6 aspects of this wedge can be changed and customized to match almost any outfit.

The Look- Red
Hair-Elikatira-Brielle2- Exclusives Hair Pack
Skin-Glam Affair - Luna Skin - Jamaica 
Dress-Paper Arrow-Breezy.dress Red-Maitreya
Wings-*BOOM* Aranel's Wings-sugar
Shoes-CandyDoll-Maya - Maitreya Lara
Location-Elysion Adult Lounge
Pose-an lar -The Demure Series

Musical Inspiration: Red, Taylor Swift